How Healthy is Your Relationship? Thinking back over the past three months, select the answer that best describes how you feel, generally speaking, in your current relationship. My partner says and does things that lets me know s/he loves me Never Sometimes Often Always I respect my partner and can list the reasons why Never Sometimes Often Always We have an enjoyable sex life Never Sometimes Often Always My partner makes me feel like I can’t do anything right Never Sometimes Often Always My partner hurts my feelings and doesn’t apologise after Never Sometimes Often Always When I’m upset or hurt, my partner spends time talking it over with me Never Sometimes Often Always I feel lonely in my relationship with my partner Never Sometimes Often Always My partner thinks I’m too needy Never Sometimes Often Always I feel smothered by my partner Never Sometimes Often Always When it comes to household responsibilities, I end up doing it all Never Sometimes Often Always I wish my partner would be more romantic Never Sometimes Often Always I feel my partner understands me Never Sometimes Often Always When I’m fighting with my partner, I get the feeling it’s about something bigger Never Sometimes Often Always We spend time talking about our hopes and dreams Never Sometimes Often Always Despite our differences, we work well as a team Never Sometimes Often Always